Elisa and Nathan Bond were given a grim diagnosis – they both had cancer. But now, the parents reveal the good news they received right in time for the holidays.
Elisa and Nathan Bond were given a grim diagnosis – they both had cancer. But now, the parents reveal the good news they received right in time for the holidays.
Just a few months ago the future seemed impossibly bleak for Elisa and Nathan Bond, the Brooklyn wife and husband who had both been diagnosed with late stage cancers earlier this year.
But in what seems like the ultimate holiday gift, just this week the couple got the news that Elisa’s cancer had finally responded to therapy and disappeared.
“It’s as surreal as when I was told I had cancer,” Elisa told TODAY’s Carl Quintanilla “It’s wonderful.”
The couple decided to share their news with the world the same way they had told everyone they had been diagnosed: on the TODAY show.
“They got the brain tumors ,” Elisa told Janet Shamlian. “They’re all gone. Beyond that, I had a new PET scan and all my active cancer is gone.”
Before their diagnoses, Elisa and Nathan Bonds’ life seemed picture perfect. Not long after their fairy tale wedding they’d conceived a beautiful baby girl who was growing into a happy, well-adjusted toddler named Sadie.
But then, on Valentine’s Day of this year, the fabric of their existence started to unravel. Nathan, 38, was told he had Stage 3 colon cancer with a 65 percent chance of surviving five years.
Just nine days later, 36-year-old Elisa learned she had breast cancer that had already started to spread through her body. Her chances of surviving the next five years with a cancer caught this late were just 16 percent.
For months there was only bad news. Elisa’s condition worsened over the summer. Tumors were popping up everywhere, including her liver and her brain.
“The liver was the worst place,“ Elisa told Shamlian. “It had the most cancer. And then the brain tumors emerged.”
For Elisa, the lowest point came when she was told she could no longer drive.
“It was almost like finding out about the cancer because it was a real loss of independence for me,” she told Quintanilla. “I am a driver. I love to drive. The minute I got my license I was out the door. I felt so hamstrung. And it was almost worse, in my everyday life than the cancer was.”
Doctors treated Elisa’s cancer aggressively with chemotherapy and a breast cancer drug called Herceptin.
And then, just a few days ago, the doctors told the couple they couldn’t find even a trace of Elisa’s cancer.
Even in the liver? Shamlian asked.
“The liver!” Elisa said. “That’s exactly what I said. The liver.”
“Breast?” Shamlian prompted.
“Breast.”
“ Brain?”
“Brain!”
“I am what they call N.E.D.,” Elisa said. “No evidence of disease. It’s the best news I can get.”
Elisa is one of a select few, said Dr. Adam Brufsky, a professor of medicine and director of the breast cancer center at the University of Pittsburgh Medical Center.
“In my practice this has happened in about 3 to 5 percent of [comparable] patients,” Brufsky said. “But I think we’re going to see this more and more. Herceptin has really changed the natural history of the disease.”
What’s surprising is the disappearance of Elisa’s brain tumors, Brufsky said. Scientists didn’t think that Herceptin was able to enter the brain, he added.
The really good news, Brufsky said, is that patients who respond to Herceptin seem to be staying healthy for years.
The 5-year survival used to be of the order of 5-10 percent, Brufsky said. “Now it’s upwards of 25 to 30 percent if not higher,” he added. “There are a lot of new things coming out that have us all very excited.”
It certainly wasn’t how Nathan expected things to go.
“I’ve kind of always been waiting to get over my treatments so I could be there to support her more,” he said looking at his wife with a big grin. “And [this] definitely makes it a much more happy time to go into surgery.“
The Bonds posted their wonderful news on the family blog that has touched so many others around the world. Over the past year, strangers have posted back encouraging the Bonds to keep going and not to give up.
“I think without not only the family and friends, but also the strangers that wrote to us, it would definitely not have been as easy to do,” Nathan said.
Although the family isn’t completely out of the woods – Nathan still has a surgery scheduled for his rectal cancer – the future looks a lot brighter today.
“It looks like a sandy beach now, as opposed to a rocky hill,” Elisa said.


God's blessing to them both.
God Bless these people and keep them disease free.
absolutely wonderful! I hope her husband gets the same great news!
A Christmas gift! I hope the best for this family.
Prayers for continued good health and recovery for both of them. If attitude is an indication, they are half-way there. Blessings to them and their beautiful little girl
MAY our LORD keep you both forever in his arm's of saftey ,for all cancer survivor's as well .Miracle's do happen if we all believe in HIM.I can see the love you both share for each other .your little girl is cute ,be strong it is all in His hand's
Wow, I am speechless, the chances of 2 people getting cancer at the same time and for one of them to beat it when the odds were so low...wow...so happy she's doing better, I hope they have great news for him as well, after surgery. I hope they have a great holiday season with their daughter.
Since Christmas Eve is this Saturday you preferred to beige over your story's title to take some of the meaning out of it. Only in the USA is Christmas now a word that requires a euphamism. For what that bit of info is worth, not much to most native born or immigrants to the United States anymore, apparently, from the dearth of anyone else taking issue with it, Christmas is not a potty word. And the next decades will decide if it goes the way of the dodo in the USA, it appears safe in the rest of this hemisphere and in the old world despite all the immigrants they get. Other countries seem to have no problems with expecting new comers to accept native traditions but in the US there is a native constituency only too happy to use any excuse to beige over just about everything we used to take for granted. Even our greatest and most profane and sacred, Christmas itself. Welcome to 1984.
Charlie, this is not the place for this tirade. But since you've thrown it in there, anyway... I have no problem with the word "Christmas" (coming from the European/Christian tradition myself), but I do take exception to your argument. The US, by definition, is very different from the other countries to which you refer. By "native traditions," I assume you are not referring to the traditions of actual Native Americans -- though they were here and native long before your or my ancestors started showing up. European culture is not native to this continent. It was imported. Many different people have imported their traditions to this country and why should your traditions hold any higher place than anyone else's? Why do you get to claim your traditions as "native"? We are not like Europe. We do not have a native culture rooted in this soil aside from the traditions of those who were here before the Conquest. There is no one group among the decedents of European, Asian and/or African immigrants that can claim to have *the* native culture. I am not "native" in the sense you are using the word, and neither are you. This is not PC, this is Reality.
On a side note, wishing someone a happy holiday or referring to this time as the Holidays is an inclusive term, one meant to include everyone as all cultures have celebrations around this time. Using Christmas for everything and for everyone is exclusionary to many people -- and that seems a little un-Christmas-like to me. Merry Christmas to you, however, since that is your culture.
Hi Charlie, I'm a health editor at msnbc.com and today.com. Thanks for your comment. One thing that may surprise you is that, even online, we are somewhat limited by headline length - even a few letters can make a difference, so often we select a shorter word with a similar meaning. In this case, that's one reason why we went with "holiday," rather than "Christmas." As Saddened pointed out, there are several holidays being celebrated this week, so we thought the word was appropriate. Thanks for reading!
Great news. Wonderful for the parents but especially their little girl. Absolutely a miracle. Nice to hear a story like this, especially as Christmas approaches.
Wonderful news! God did not do this, though. Dedicated, hardworking and intelligent human beings did and they deserve the credit as does the funding of our research institutions.
onewoman...for those who are believers, God is the one who gave man the intelligence and ability to do the research in order to improve medical science. Sure, give the researchers and scientists the credit, no arguments. They went forward with the information instead of just sitting back.
Ockham's razor -- Congrats to the doctors.
onewonan Wow, I am glad to know you are in such close " speaking terms with God" so you know what he/she does and does not do ;-) Yes Great news about the cancer, some reading about Telomerase might help some to better understand it and how remissions are possible.
A feel good story is GREAT! We need more of those these days! God Bless them both as well as their daughter Sadie!
That is such great news. I have a very close friend that has survived for 5 years with stage 4 colon cancer and is finally losing the battle. It's great that we continue to find solutions to these horrific diseases. I wish everyone health, happiness and a very Merry Christmas. It's really amazing how someone brings religion into this conversation. I don't know how all these atheists can be so mad at an imaginary being. Just think if God was real how mad they would be! Such a sad existance to know that it all ends when you close your eyes for the last time. Glad I have another option.
Cudos to you too Kevin, I personally do not believe in Xmas, but i do believe that " Laughter is the best medicine " SO I will have a hearty laugh with you lol
God bless both of them and their sweet angel. To think she could have been an orphan but thank God, the day is brighter now.